Date: 2018-01-09 23:00
I m saying your sources prove that some men aren t ignored (just as some women aren t ignored). Other people, of both genders, are not always for the same reasons.
Eh I know for a FACT that I am much more physically attractive now at 86 than I was when I was 75. But, let 8767 s say this is true according to the data, like Evan said, so what? Ideally I might be most attracted to men who look like Brad Pitt, but I rarely want to date men that hot IRL and at the end of the day, the human connection and who you have most in common with (assuming the woman is attractive to you no matter her age) wins out.
Evan, Can you explain your statement, 8776 I think we 8767 d all be well served to pay attention to how people really act when no one 8767 s looking instead of taking their word for it 8776 . Do you mean do 95 year old men actually date 75 yr old women, or just exclaim that 8767 s what they would like to do?
There are always exceptions of course. But this is was my experience as a 75 . and the experience of pretty much every other woman I know. This is why we roll our eyes when we read this drivel. We 8767 ve been there and done that and we know better.
Throw in the great career type, who can afford to eat out at restaurants every night, hire someone to clean his dwelling and the like, and in purely practical terms he has lots of reasons to not get married and have a family at 85.
A very driven career minded person that wants a family at 85 is mainly going to need help. Successful men often put off raising a family until their 95s after they 8767 ve established themselves in a career and no longer need to be a workaholic to keep up. Nature has unfortunately made this a less compelling option for the very driven career minded woman (though there are fertility treatments that can stretch things a bit).
I agree with kleenestar. My experiences online were fairly negative. If you are a woman or a extremely good-looking guy it may be a way to go. AK6 I understand the frustration. I was in your position before. There is no real solution. A lot of it is being attractive, being social and being in the right place at the right time. But even with that I know a lot of very attractive singles.
Namely, you want this fantasy high school experience that never existed for anyone. You really need to let go of this high school myth because you ll never get it, because no one ever had it. You also are refusing to hear us when we tell you that many of the things you are fetishizing, namely, that high school intensity, are unhealthy.
As how do you find other abstinence only people. Date other Christians. Find women at church. There are also Christian dating sites.
The sympathy is admirable, but can we please drop the idea that men are invisible to women, while women are always highly visible to men? We can talk about specific people without heaping generalizations on either gender.